Thursday, January 12, 2017

A Beautiful Enigma

Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell is a book written on the perspective of two high school teens that cannot fit into the mold. Whether that mold be from parents, their peers, or even themselves. Let me begin with Park. He seemed to have had a normal childhood growing up. Loving mom, a dad who was around, and an annoying younger brother. This is the surface however. Park has a soft personality, quiet and quirky. He is intelligent. He is weak though. Not just in the physical sense but in the emotional and social sense. Almost cowardly. This aspect, this very thing is what he dislikes the most about himself. Every time a situation arises and he cowers, he thinks of his father's commentary. His father sounds like a stereotypical man's "man". Drives a stick, calls his son a pussy, has an adoring wife. These are the characteristics that his father is looking for in Park and Park exhibits near to none. Park is dormant. He is maneuvering through his life, taking the path of least resistance. Alive but not really living.

Then there is Eleanor. She is fiery and not meaning her hair. She has not lived a pampered life, nor had a normal childhood. Yet I find her to be alive! She feels everything. This makes sense since her nerves have been on edge for most of her life. I find her hypersensitive but at the same time laid back. She has in intrinsic insight to see things for what they are instead of what everybody may pretending they may be. Her most aspiring quality is her ability to stand out, continually. She never tries to fit in. She merely just is.


The beauty of the two is that Eleanor is bringing life to Park. She is teaching him how to feel and in return he is teaching her to trust and to love. She is teaching him courage and identity without him even knowing it. This is the beauty of love and the human connection. Although they are very different creatures, they find solitude in each other for the attributes that each lack. A beautiful enigma.

8 comments:

  1. I would argue that they are teaching each other to be courageous. Both of them are cowards in their own way, Eleanor is reluctant to let Park get to know her fully, and Park is worried about what people think about him. Together they are learning that both of their fears are irrelevant.

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  2. I disagree with your opinion on how this story is beautiful. I find this story to be a bit forced. It seems to me that Park fell in love with Eleanor just because she started reading his comic books. Maybe it'll go on to the full reason on what park sees in her in the next section of the book.

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    1. I think when he finally noticed Eleanor reading the comics, Park started noticing her with more depth. It still took a while before he "fell" for her.

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  3. I have to agree with Lorraine on this one, both characters have their issues but they are learning to get over it.

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  4. I like your description of Eleanor and how she never tries to fit in. I was thinking the same thing. She just acts how she wants despite what people may think.

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  5. I like your description of Eleanor and how she never tries to fit in. I was thinking the same thing. She just acts how she wants despite what people may think.

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  6. I also think that its cool how two completely different types of kids fall for each other. I think that them being so different from each other is what connects them because they can introduce new life styles and interests to one another.

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  7. I loved your writing style, and word choice. Nice way to think outside of the box, about Eleanor and Park. I'm starting to think even though both of the characters have two completely different lifestyles, they have similar personalities.

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